Daniel UGWO

 

In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, we often find ourselves caught up in the urgency of the moment, forgetting the sacredness of certain practices that define our faith. One of such practices is the sacrament of reconciliation, commonly known as confession.

As Catholics, we are called to approach this sacrament with reverence, humility, and patience. However, a trend if unchecked may increase in parishes as time passes: Individuals sneaking into the confessional line, bypassing those who have been waiting patiently. I was at the confessional queue recently but I was surprised as few persons by-passed the solemn queue to the confessional. This behaviour not only undermines the sanctity of the sacrament but also raises serious questions about the understanding of sin and repentance among some members of our community.

Patience is a virtue that is often tested in our fast-paced world. Yet, it is essential, especially in spiritual matters. When we queue for confession, we are not merely waiting for our turn; we are entering a sacred space designed for reflection, repentance, and renewal. This waiting period provides us with an invaluable opportunity to contemplate on our sins, feel genuine sorrow for them, and prepare our hearts to receive God’s mercy.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 1450) teaches that “Penance requires . . . the sinner to endure all things willingly, be contrite of heart, confess with the lips, and practice complete humility and fruitful satisfaction.” This proclamation is best received in an atmosphere of patience and reverence. Cheating the queue into the confessional not only diminishes our own experience but also disrespects those who have taken the time to reflect on their own shortcomings.

For those who may be tempted to cheat in the confessional line, it is crucial to understand the implications of such actions. First and foremost, one must ask: What is being confessed? If an individual is willing to by-pass others in line, are they genuinely seeking forgiveness for their transgressions, or are they merely looking for a quick fix? Cheating in this context can be seen as a manifestation of deeper issues—perhaps a lack of understanding of what constitutes a sin or an inability to grasp the true essence of reconciliation.

The Catechism reminds us that “the sacrament of Penance is necessary for salvation for those who have fallen after Baptism.” If one approaches this sacrament without sincerity and humility, they risk leaving with an unexamined conscience. Moreover, those who cheat in line might find themselves feeling guilty not only for their original sins but also for their dishonesty. This additional layer of guilt can hinder true repentance and reconciliation with God. Instead of experiencing the grace that comes from confession, they may leave feeling more burdened than before.

 It is essential for those who engage in such behaviour to recognize that their actions do not go unnoticed. Fellow parishioners who have been patiently waiting may observe their actions and form judgments about their character and integrity. In a community that values honesty and humility, such behaviour can lead to feelings of resentment and disappointment among others.

As Catholics, we are called to be witnesses to Christ’s love and mercy. When we act with integrity and respect for others, we embody the teachings of our faith. Conversely, when we cheat or cut corners at confession queues, we not only tarnish our own reputation but also diminish the witness of our community. Those who find themselves tempted to cheat at the confessional are challenged to reflect deeply on their motivations, while they are seeking reconciliation.

The documents of the Roman Catholic Church offer clear guidance on the importance of honesty and integrity in all aspects of life, including our spiritual practices. Cheating in line contradicts this principle and undermines our moral standing before God and our community.

Additionally, Pope Francis has often spoken about the importance of humility and sincerity in our spiritual lives. In his apostolic exhortation *Evangelii Gaudium*, he encourages us to approach God with a contrite heart, recognizing our need for His mercy. Cheating at the confessional stands in stark contrast to this call for genuine humility.

As Catholics, let us remember that every moment spent waiting in line is an opportunity for reflection and preparation for receiving God’s grace. To those who may find themselves tempted to cheat at the confessional, take a moment to reconsider your actions. Embrace patience as a means to deepen your relationship with God and your understanding of your sins. Let us all commit to approaching the sacrament of reconciliation with honesty and humility, fostering a community that reflects Christ’s love and mercy.